Tuesday, December 5, 2017

"Pleasuring Doesn't Take Talent"

"Pleasuring  A Man Or Woman Doesn't Take Talent"

Animals do that and they arent the greatest of Gods creation.  Why does MAN OR WOMAN brag about how beast like they are sexually? 

Boast about how their gonna put it down & your gonna fall in love, LAUGHING OUT LOUD.

When in all honesty it takes no major skills to hump, grind, pleasure, Ego Stroke and OR stimulate your lower organs or full being.

Pleasuring a man or woman doesn't take talent...

REMEMBER THIS whenever you start to toot your own horn about how addictingly mind blowing your sex or animalistic nature is able to selfie or US-ie a picture: moment, cinematicaly capture, hypnotize  & mesmerize others to the point that they go crazy, get distracted, become so into you,  get stuck, start to stalk you, threaten you, some will plot to verbally or physically abuse you; some are psychotic & can't let you go or will just kill you along with themselves. Homicidal, Suicidal,its Insanity & all for a moment..

That's what's CRACKIN!
Living The Wet Dream!!

Always a Done Deal, Executed,  Manifested, Certified & Verified in "ALL SHEETS POPPIN".

Remind yourself that you are far from being the only one who can bring any sexual encounter or physical experience to a happy landing.

In conclusion, your not all that no matter how INTENSELY MAGNIFICENT you have been told you make a person feel because it's a thin line heated moments of lust and PASSION that ignites loved & hated fires that our lower selves fulfill.

So discipline it, overcome it to tame your inner beast unfulfilled, bold, bragadoches spirit that's haughty & Gallant because PLEASURING A MAN OR A WOMAN DOESN'T TAKE TALENT.

Written by:
Gregory D. Anderson Jr

Friday, December 1, 2017

Remembering Legendary Rapper "Big Mello"

You automatically know when you are in the presence of a cat who is born to do what you are doing and/or trying to do. I was recording my rap solo maxi single record entitled "Not To Be Outdone" when I met Big Mello at Track Designs in Houston, Texas who was mastering a song called "Don't Let The Name Fool U".

As I showed up in the studio engineer Shetoro and his beautiful wife Bernie were mastering this particular track among others. Reflecting back in time, I can still feel The Commodores "Brick House" beat thumping full power.  I noticed the engineers later mixed in the classic ole school song "Pull Fancy Dancer"by One Way. It starts off with "I know you're gonna dig this".

When I saw "Big Mello" rap for the first time it was like surreal magic to me because I could visually see what he was describing as he rapped about  running from the cops he sayed: "I hopped back in the Lac got away real fast, let the seats lay back then ripped off the mask; went through the Clarke it was dam near dark, bought a 40 from Buffalo popped the top and watched laws they ride by looking in my ride and slowly they stopped it was a black and a white guy. Yo it's on and I ran like a mad man, pistol in hand a pocket full of grands hittin fences and ditches hittin bushes they looking  helicopters are coming I'm bussing at em and bookin. Yo me go back? NEVER. I'm like ruthless Mello's like chillin but "Don't Let The Name Fool U"."

 I am paraphrasing his lyrics as I played the song back and hope that I got it right often I get lyrics mixed up even when listening to R&B (laughing out loud).  "Big Mello" was illustrating lyrically about how cop helicopters over head were looking for him and how he wasn't going back to lockdown down. In a very charismatic & animated way his storytelling was superb engaging anyone in range. Clearly telling kids there is a better way and to not do what he did in song. 

It was a very powerful moment! As good as he was "Big Mello" still asked me my name and wanted to see my set so I hit a few verses from my "Not To Be Out Done" song while he was smiling and laughing sounding as he does in his music saying: "Yeah I see ya M.C .Popcorn, Yeah ah ha" gave me a pound and he had to finish his track. He was very positive and encouraging; Big Mello had his family and a number of people with him in the studio as he got ready to leave he told me his real name was Curtis but his rap name was "Big Mello" and to look out for him. 

There was nothing gonna stop his rise because privately as I practiced I wanted my rap flow to be like "Big Mello's" but that was his gift and there is only one Big Mello.  While I could rap, I was more of a message rapper! Mello was the first gangsta rapper that I met face to face and I knew instantly after hearing him that he was the truth. One of those cats who had experienced life to the fullest but decided to use his purpose to take care of himself and his family. 

 Much of Big Mello's thoughts and philosphy as an artist are very well and clearly conveyed via many of his songs. A number of messages I've received from listening to his music involved tips like "stack your money;"SAVE YOURS" for a rainy day, keeping your business out of the street, ceasing all that gum bumpin and bragging; Not putting people down or hating on others because those same cats you may have to answer to; anybody can come up, love don't love nobody, unity and living life to the fullest because you never know when your time is up and that's gonna happen to everyone of us; we all have a time in which we will have to give an account for how we lived here and so many more messages Big Mello shared in song. He was not just bone hard core but one hell of a story teller just listen to his music. If you can get beyond some of the raw content, you will hear & also witness his positive evolution delivered in only a fashion that could be expressed by Big Mello himself.

I have friends who don't like rap music or gangsta rap! I myself love all genre's of music including talk radio because even in it's rawest form I can take the message from the music regardless of how hardcore it is. I worked with Track Designs they hired me to go out and promote seeking talent to buy studio time and made room for me there in their home studio while I earned money to finish my maxi single "Not To Be Out Done". It was my first time living in Houston and I really appreciated crossing paths with Curtis Donnell Davis.

I would shortly see him do his thing in the media just as he said on a national scale.  I moved to California and upon my return to Texas in 2002, I thought about linking up with Big Mello eventually; I always thought about working with him over the years but I was told that Mello had died in a fatal car accident in 2002. It's unfortunate when we hear about people we meet passing away. I hated to hear this and I didn't get a chance to know Big Mello like many have in H Town but I am happy that we crossed paths.  In a number of ways he was a tremendous inspiration! His music has motivated me in my drive and current success!

I have met many cats but "Big Mello" to me was certainly one of the most "Bone Hard" personalities & artists of them all. Gone but lives on through his Rap-A-Lot family, SUC and loved ones locally and globally. Big Salute to Rapper Big Mello a true HTown Legend, Hiram Clarkes Finest.

Once again gone but lives on through his music.  He was Curtis Donnell Davis aka "Big Mello" but "Don't Let The Name Fool U"

Blog Written by: Gregory D. Anderson Jr  Author/Certified Anger Management Facilitator/Mental Health Professional/Podcaster
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Saturday, March 8, 2014

How much is enough ATTENTION?

Even as children we crave for attention! We need it and some of us feel that we will die if we don't get it. True babies need hugs, kisses and to feel loved, adored and appreciated. Society shows us clearly what happens when pittbulls who can be friendly are ignored, kicked, punched and locked down. What happens is they become beasts, natural born killers whom are ready to die or kill on instinct or command.

I'm purposely drawing a parallel between animals and people because we like animals fight
for supremacy, food, economics, reputation, fame, money, shock value and all of it boils
down to ATTENTION.

ATTENTION: How much is too much? Today we see entertainers like 50 Cent calling out different artists like Rick Ross, bringing Rick's baby momma on his Thisis50.com show to expose
Ricks mistreatment of his wife, lack of child support, taking Ricks x-wife out & implying that he will be sleeping with her. Why? Why is an artist like 50 Cent or Curtis attacking anyone within range? What does it do for him when he mentions that he has the power to destroy another mans life? What does he or anyone accomplish in such foolishness? Let's be clear 50 Cent, Mr. G Unit is a business man and he understand Muhammad Ali 101 "Get the people talking; it draws ATTENTION ladies & gentlemen to a hot artist & guess who yours truly 50 Cent.

ATTENTION via news, blogs, commentaries, articles, tv, internet, radio, television, magazines, banners, posters, flyers, magnets, billboards, newspapers, graphics and audio or visual images worldwide are all designed to generate cash money, even though 50 Cent Music isn't playing as HOT as he once was he has partnered with different businesses to keep his paper flow rolling From Floyd "Money" Mayweather to "The 50 Laws of Power" book 50 is co-authoring & promoting; along with Vitamin Water which is horrible an off brand of Gatorade however 50 understands the media ATTENTION BUSINESS.

There are many examples other than rappers such as Muhammad Ali Vs George Forman, Sugar Ray Leonard Vs Tommy "HitMan" Hearns, Tyson Vs Holyfield, Eminem Vs Nick Cannon, Stevey Harvey Vs Katt Williams, Jamie Foxx Vs LL Cool J, Game Vs Jay Z, Beyonce vs Kari Hilson, Tupac Vs Biggie, Jesus Vs Satan and the list goes on. What does ATTENTION bring? Answer is PEOPLE. PEOPLE bring numbers just as a preacher requests his congregation to invite somebody, tell somebody or as a telemarketer makes calls from a list of contacts to hopefully land the calls that lead to dividends that make profit.

The down side to attention is that what goes up sooner or later comes down or grows old. The reality of beef or ATTENTION whether good or bad is that it delivers are drives BIG BUSINESS. You can track it back to the beginning of time; there has always been conroversy or ATTENTION to the latest trends or fads even young men who in my view need a real beat down when they have children that they are pushing in a stroller as they have pants hanging from under their rumps to reveal thier underwear; which they know is obscene is because they crave attention even negative attention is better than NONE to some. Blame it on how you were raised
when you were coming up; poor me and what I had to go through as a kid; Counseling wouldn't be a bad idea or some form of intervention to prevent self destruction or expressed hate upon others that will get you locked up. Personal responsibility we all must own when we GROW UP... Replacing those negative thoughts in your head is vital however it gets done it must be done & all that self pity feeling sorry for yourself when you look around many people are in worse circumstances & made it anyway against all odds.

What about when a young man gets tired of being picked on or tired of being labeled good for nothing; whom is often ignored as if he or she is a ghost; the kid or adult that's lonely, sad, depressed, angry, given up on life pursuits, dreams or just ready to die. The kid who goes into a mall, a school, a concert, a carnival, a church during praise and worship to spray the crowd with a AK 47 or a machine gun. WHY? Why are people doing these things that are good and bad? The reason I think is that they want ATTENTION and/or want to be known for something because this life labeled them average or good for nothing.

Face it many people have lived and died; some lived fantastic lives who never received any lime light, praise or ATTENTION of any kind but managed through life in the ordinary. Look at the 12 disciples whom were all ordinary men whom God used to showcase extraordinary works through basic everyday people.

100 years from now the beef, this man vs that man, that woman vs that woman or man wont matter. The ATTENTION don't matter but when it delivers harm and death to people that's when it's too much. So how much is enough ATTENTION?

~ Gregory D. Anderson Jr
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